Experiences with Death

  • Deathbed visions involve individuals nearing the end of life reporting seeing deceased loved ones, religious figures, or other spiritual entities appearing to them. This experience is similar to near-death experiences.

  • These are reported by individuals who have come close to death but survived. They often involve a sensation of leaving the body, traveling through a tunnel toward a bright light, encountering deceased loved ones or spiritual beings, and experiencing a profound sense of peace or love.

  • Sometimes reported in combination with NDEs, OBEs involve a feeling of detachment from one’s physical body, often with the sensation of floating above it and observing one’s surroundings from a different perspective.

  • These occur when individuals who are present at the deathbed of a loved one report experiencing some of the same phenomena as the dying person, such as seeing a bright light or feeling a sense of transcendence.

Hospice Care

  • Hospice care focuses on the care, comfort, and quality of life of a person with a serious illness who is approaching the end of life and who chooses not to get (or continue) treatment to cure or control their illness. It often includes emotional and spiritual support for the patient and their loved ones. Hospice focuses on caring, not curing, and in most cases, care is provided in the patient’s home. Hospice care can also be provided in freestanding hospice centers, hospitals, nursing homes, and other long-term care facilities. Hospice services are available to patients of any age, religion, race, or illness. Hospice care is covered under Medicare, Medicaid, most private insurance plans, HMOs, and other managed care organizations.

    People may choose to enroll in hospice care if the treatment is unlikely to be effective or if continuing it has become too burdensome. Hospice aims to provide comfort and peace to improve the quality of life for the person nearing death. It also helps family members cope with their loved one’s illness and can provide support to the family after the person dies, including help with grieving, sometimes called bereavement care. Medicare reimburses for hospice services when a physician determines that a patient has a life expectancy of 6 months or less.

    Many people with a serious illness use hospice care. A serious illness may be defined as a disease or condition with a high risk of death or one that negatively affects a person’s quality of life or ability to perform daily tasks. It may cause symptoms or have treatments that affect daily life and lead to caregiver stress. Examples of serious illnesses include dementia, cancer, heart failure, and chronic obstructive lung disease.

    Deciding whether and when to start hospice can be a difficult decision, and it may cause people to feel confused or overwhelmed. Explore the following answers to frequently asked questions about hospice care and its benefits.

  • Anyone with a serious illness who doctors think has a short time to live — generally 6 months or less — usually qualifies for hospice care. For Medicare to pay for hospice care, patients must stop medical treatment intended to cure or control their illness.

  • Despite the benefits of using hospice care, many people wait to receive hospice care until the final weeks or days of life. It’s important to talk with your doctor about your illness and how your disease is progressing. Starting hospice early may mean that you receive months of meaningful care and quality time with loved ones.

  • Hospice care can provide a range of services depending on your symptoms and end-of-life care wishes. These services include emotional and spiritual support for the person and their family, relief of symptoms and pain, help with advance care planning, and therapy services such as physical or occupational therapy.

  • Hospice can be provided in many settings — a private home, nursing home, assisted living facility, or hospital. Many people choose to receive hospice care at home so their friends and family can visit as they wish. Other considerations may include one’s home environment versus another setting, cost, and the stability of the person’s condition. Choosing where to receive hospice care is a personal decision, but it may be helpful to talk with family members, your caregiver, and your doctor about the level of care you need and if it can be provided at home. The costs of receiving hospice care at different locations may differ.

    Read more about where end-of-life care can be provided.

  • Yes! Advance care planning involves making decisions ahead of time about the health care you would want to receive at the end of life. Studies have shown that patients who have participated in advance care planning receive care that is more aligned with their wishes and are more satisfied with their care.

    PREPARE For Your Care, funded in part by the National Institute on Aging — This is a patient-directed interactive online advance care program that helps you fill out an advance directive and put your care wishes into writing. This tool is available in English and Spanish.

  • When you begin hospice care, medication and other treatments to cure or control your serious illness will stop. For example, if you are receiving chemotherapy that is meant to treat or cure your cancer, that must end before you can enter hospice care. However, a person in hospice can continue to take medications to treat other conditions or symptoms, for example, high blood pressure.

  • Most Medicaid, Medicare, and private insurance providers will cover some hospice services. Older adults enrolled in Medicare can receive hospice care if their health care provider thinks they have 6 months or less to live. In most cases, they will need to sign a statement choosing hospice care instead of other Medicare-covered treatments for their illness.

  • While some may think hospice provides custodial care 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, or full-time care at home or at an outside facility, this is rarely the case. Although hospice provides a lot of support, most of the day-to-day care of a person dying is provided by family and friends. However, a person from a hospice care team is usually available by phone 24/7.

  • Most people with advanced dementia cannot communicate clearly, which means they may not be able to share their concerns with their caregivers. Caregivers may find it difficult to provide adequate care at the end of life because of this and other concerns. Hospice care can help with this situation. Hospice — whether provided at home or in a medical facility — can give caregivers and the person with dementia the support they need near the end of life. Studies show that family members of people with dementia who received hospice report a better quality of care and having more of their needs met at the end of life.

  • Studies have shown that when a person enrolls in hospice care, they are more likely to have a higher quality of life with their remaining time; feel more comfortable physically, mentally, and spiritually; have increased family satisfaction with the process; and experience better symptom and pain management. They are also less likely to undergo tests or be given medication they don’t need or want.

  • Typically, a family member serves as the primary caregiver and, when appropriate, helps make decisions for the terminally ill individual. Members of the hospice staff make regular visits to assess the patient and provide additional care and services. The hospice team develops a care plan that meets each patient’s individual needs for pain management and symptom control. Support for family caregivers is also assessed throughout the care period. While the range of services varies depending on each individual’s situation and needs, hospice staff are available by phone 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

  • The interdisciplinary team usually consists of:

    • The patient’s physician

    • Hospice physician (or medical director)

    • Nurses

    • Hospice aides

    • Social workers

    • Spiritual care providers or other counselors

    • Bereavement professionals

    • Speech, physical, and occupational therapists

    • Trained volunteers

  • Among its major responsibilities, the interdisciplinary hospice team:

    • Manages the patient’s pain and symptoms

    • Assists the patient with the emotional, psychosocial, and spiritual aspects of dying

    • Provides needed drugs, medical supplies, and equipment

    • Coaches the family on how to care for the patient

    • Delivers special services like physical therapy, speech therapy, and even music and art therapy

    • Makes short-term inpatient care available when pain or symptoms become too difficult to manage at home or when the caregiver needs respite time

    • Provides bereavement care and counseling to surviving family and friends

  • Hospice provides trained volunteers to aid the family and patients. Most hospice volunteers are trained to relieve the primary caregivers, do household chores, and help bathe the patients. Perhaps the most important task, however, is their ability to be “good listeners.” Volunteers also support the work of the hospice program that might not involve the patient or family interaction.

  • Hospice care is for any person who has a life-threatening or terminal illness. Most reimbursement sources require a prognosis of six months or less if the illness runs its normal course. All hospices consider the patient and family together as the unit of care.

  • Most people receiving hospice care are covered by the Medicare hospice benefit. This benefit covers almost all aspects of hospice care with little out-of-pocket expense to the patient or family. As a result, the financial burdens usually associated with caring for a terminally ill patient are virtually nonexistent. In addition, most private health plans and Medicaid in most states and the District of Columbia cover hospice services.

  • Most hospice patients are cared for in their own homes or the homes of a loved one. “Home” may also include services provided in nursing homes, assisted living centers, and hospitals … wherever the patient considers as home.

Palliative Care

  • Palliative care is specialized medical care for people living with a serious illness. You can receive palliative care at the same time as treatment for your disease or condition. It focuses on providing relief from the symptoms and stress of serious illness. The palliative care team works to prevent or ease suffering, improve the quality of life for patients and their families, and help them make difficult health care decisions. When a patient decides to forgo treatment for their serious illness or is near the end of life, they may choose to enter hospice care (see the questions and answers about hospice care).

    A serious illness may be defined as a disease or condition with a high risk of death or one that negatively affects a person’s quality of life or ability to perform daily tasks. It may cause symptoms or have treatments that affect daily life and lead to caregiver stress. Examples of serious illnesses include dementia, cancer, heart failure, and chronic obstructive lung disease.

  • A palliative care team may include specialist nurses and doctors, social workers, religious or spiritual leaders, therapists, and nutritionists, among other professionals. Your team may vary depending on your needs and level of care.

  • Palliative care can be provided alongside your current treatment and care. Your palliative care team works with your current doctor and other providers to offer specific treatments and care plans. Palliative care is meant to enhance your current care by focusing on the quality of life for you and your family.

  • People living with a serious illness such as cancer, heart disease, lung disease, or kidney failure may experience emotional or physical pain related to their illness. If you’re having trouble coping with this pain, palliative care may be right for you. You don’t need to wait until your disease is in the advanced stages or you’re in the final months of life to start palliative care. Talk with your doctor if you’re considering starting palliative care. To begin the process, your health care provider can refer you to a palliative care specialist. If they don’t suggest it, you can ask your health care provider for a referral.

  • Palliative care can be provided in hospitals, nursing homes, outpatient palliative care clinics and other specialized clinics, or at home. Dr. Salvador Ramos is a licensed doctor in Florida and Georgia but can provide coaching support all over the world in English and Spanish.

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    If you’re looking for palliative care in your area, visit the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization website.

  • Most private insurance plans at least partially cover palliative care services. Medicare and Medicaid also typically cover most of these services. Veterans may also be eligible for palliative care through the Department of Veterans Affairs. If you have concerns about paying for palliative care, a social worker, care manager, or financial advisor at your hospital or clinic may be able to help you.

  • Not necessarily. Palliative care is meant to relieve symptoms such as pain, breathing difficulties, or nausea, and relieve stress for patients and their families. Palliative care can be used at any time after the diagnosis of a serious illness.

  • Hospice care is a specialized form of palliative care that is delivered in the final months or weeks of life. Hospice care is used when patients and their families no longer wish to pursue treatments that are meant to slow or halt the progression of an illness and instead they want to focus only on comfort care. Hospice care services are generally covered in full by Medicare and most other insurances.

  • Advance care planning involves making decisions ahead of time about the health care you would want to receive at the end of life or in a medical crisis. When a person is diagnosed with a serious illness, they should prioritize early advance care planning conversations with their family and doctors. Studies have shown that patients who have participated in advance care planning are more likely to be satisfied with their care and to receive care that is aligned with their wishes.

    PREPARE For Your Care, funded in part by the National Institute on Aging, is an interactive online program that helps you fill out an advance directive and express your wishes in writing. This tool is available in English and Spanish.

  • Studies have shown that palliative care offers many benefits for patients and their families. Those enrolled in palliative care have fewer symptoms, greater emotional support, and increased patient and family satisfaction.

Geriatric Medicine

  • Geriatrics is a branch of medicine that treats and gives medical care to elderly people. It includes preventing, diagnosing, and treating various health problems among seniors. Commonly, people above the age of 60 are considered elders and are treated by Geriatricians. Geriatrics also deals with giving palliative care to seniors who are terminally ill and require comprehensive care and support.

    Along with doctors, Geriatric caregivers include nurses, social workers, care managers, pharmacists, physical therapists, nutritionists, and occupational therapists who work collaboratively to provide comprehensive care for elders. Elders are often affected by age-related diseases and conditions, including chronic diseases, mind-related conditions, and symptoms from multiple medications. Geriatricians would comprehensively investigate the patient’s report and history to treat the existing diseases. The field of Geriatrics is taking prominence as specialized individualistic care becomes the need of the hour.

  • Geriatric Medicine is a medical specialty dedicated exclusively to providing high-quality, patient-centered care for older adults. It holds a crucial role in promoting health and managing the complex medical, cognitive, social, and psychological issues of older people.